Short answer

Track the start date and flow of each period, plus hot flashes, night sweats, sleep and mood. In perimenopause, cycles first become more variable and then further apart, and you reach menopause after 12 months with no period. A dated record helps you and your doctor see the pattern and decide on treatment.

Key facts

  • Most women begin the menopausal transition between ages 45 and 55.[1]
  • The transition usually lasts about seven years, but it can take as long as 14 years.[2]
  • You have reached menopause when you have had no period or spotting for a full year; the average age in the US is 52.[1]
  • In the SWAN study, frequent hot flashes or night sweats lasted a median of 7.4 years in total.[3]

How do periods change in perimenopause?

The STRAW+10 staging system, used by researchers and clinicians, describes two steps before menopause:[4]

StageCycle pattern
Early menopausal transitionCycle length becomes variable: consecutive cycles differ in length by 7 days or more, and this keeps happening
Late menopausal transitionGaps of 60 days or more without a period
MenopauseNo period or spotting for 12 months in a row[1]

Periods may also get lighter or heavier, and you may skip some.[5]

What should you track, and why?

What to logWhy it helps
Period start dates and flowShows when your cycle length starts to vary and when gaps reach 60 days
Hot flashes and night sweatsHow often and how bad they are helps you and your doctor judge whether treatment is worth trying[1]
SleepTrouble sleeping is a common symptom of the transition[1]
Mood and focusMoodiness, irritability, forgetfulness and trouble concentrating can all happen[1]
Spotting or unusual bleedingSome bleeding changes need a check-up (see below)[5]

Hot flashes can last for years: in the SWAN study, women whose frequent hot flashes started before or early in the transition had them for a median of more than 11.8 years.[3]

Which bleeding changes need a doctor?

Some change is expected, but ACOG says to talk with your ob-gyn about bleeding changes and lists these as not normal:[5]

  • Bleeding or spotting between periods
  • Bleeding or spotting after sex
  • Heavy bleeding during your period
  • Bleeding that is heavier or lasts more days than usual
  • Any bleeding after menopause

Can you still get pregnant in perimenopause?

Yes. NIA advises that anyone who doesn't want to get pregnant should keep using birth control for at least a full 12 months after their last period.[1] Preeo is not a method of birth control and must not be used to prevent pregnancy.